Update OpenSSL pod and remove exclude arch setting (#1892)

Summary:
This PR updates the OpenSSL pod and thus updates the corresponding Folly and RSocket pods. The new OpenSSL pod has a support of arm64 artifact for iPhomeSimulators.This PR also updates the replaces the libevent pod which didn't work with arm64 arch for iPhoneSimulator.

## Changelog

- Update OpenSSL pod
- Update Folly dep
- Update RSocket dep
- Replace Libevent pod.

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/flipper/pull/1892

Test Plan: CI

Reviewed By: mweststrate

Differential Revision: D26229304

Pulled By: priteshrnandgaonkar

fbshipit-source-id: 46256d9cd3e0cf5aab6e477e612c3bcb77e31627

.github/workflows/iOS-dependent-pod-lint.yml

@@ -31,7 +31,6 @@ jobs:
         run: pod repo update
       - name: Lint Folly
         run: pod spec lint Flipper-Folly.podspec --use-libraries --allow-warnings --verbose --skip-import-validation
-
   lint-flipper_glog_pod:
     runs-on: macos-latest
     defaults:
@@ -55,7 +54,6 @@ jobs:
         run: pod repo update
       - name: Lint Peertalk
         run: pod spec lint Flipper-PeerTalk.podspec --use-libraries --allow-warnings --verbose --skip-import-validation
-
   lint-flipper_rsocket_pod:
     runs-on: macos-latest
     defaults: